As parents begin to age and their occupational, family and health conditions change, familial relationships may also transform. As family members take on new roles to account for these changing conditions, relationships between adult children and their parents may take on new dynamics. This process can be uncomfortable and lead to family conflict.
Frequent Sources of Conflict
- A feeling of losing independence by the aging parent
- Mental, physical and financial implications of providing care for aging parents
- Strained relationships of family members due to a lack of agreement about care decisions
- Resentment among siblings for their involvement or lack of involvement in caring for an aging parent
Conflict Mitigation Strategies
- Have ongoing conversations with family members around roles and needs
- Where appropriate, make gradual changes that allow for a comfortable adjustment
- Approach conversations with empathy and understanding
- Be flexible with changing relationship dynamics
